Sevgili Gen\u00e7ler, g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn bebe\u011fi, gelece\u011fimiz gen\u00e7ler! Ne olur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1-\u00a0Merakl\u0131 insan olun;<\/strong>\u00a0duyars\u0131z, ilgisiz, heyecans\u0131z insan olmay\u0131n. Merak etmeye kendinizi al\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131n. \u00d6\u011frenmenin ba\u015f\u0131 merak etmektir.<\/mark> 2- Bir merak\u0131n\u0131z olsun.<\/strong> G\u00fczel sanatlarla ilgili bir merak\u0131n\u0131z olsun. \u015eiir yazamasan\u0131z bile ezberleyin. Koleksiyoner bir ruha sahip olun. Ayr\u0131ca gezmeye, g\u00f6rmeye, \u00f6\u011frenmeye merakl\u0131 olun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 3-\u00a0Soru sorma al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 edinin.\u00a0<\/strong>Do\u011fru adama, do\u011fru soruyu sorun! Bizim millet \u2018Bilmiyorum\u2019 demez\u2026 Takip\u00e7i olun; konular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, i\u015flerinizi takip edin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4-\u00a0\u00d6\u011frenmeye doymay\u0131n.\u00a0<\/strong>\u0130\u015fi, konuyu sadece ehlinden dinleyin, uzman g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcne \u00f6nem verin. Kesin karar vermeden \u00f6nce \u015f\u00fcphe edin.<\/mark><\/p>\n\n\n\n 5-\u00a0Takip\u00e7i olun.<\/strong>\u00a0Konular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, i\u015flerinizi takip edin; kendi haline b\u0131rakmay\u0131n. Hele, kendi i\u015finizi ba\u015fkas\u0131na hi\u00e7 b\u0131rakmay\u0131n. Elo\u011flu, el\u00e2lemin e\u015fe\u011fini \u0131sl\u0131k \u00e7alarak ararm\u0131\u015f. Kurda \u201cNi\u00e7in ensen kal\u0131n?\u201d demi\u015fler, \u201cKendi i\u015fimi kendim g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcm\u201d demi\u015f.<\/mark><\/p>\n\n\n\n 6-\u00a0\u0130\u015flerinizi \u00f6nem s\u0131ras\u0131na g\u00f6re s\u0131ralamay\u0131 bilin.<\/strong>\u00a0En \u00f6nemsiz i\u015fine en \u00f6nemli i\u015f gibi bakarak nice hayati g\u00fcndemini atlayan insan g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 insanlar, en \u00f6nemli i\u015fi \u00f6ne alan, \u00f6nce onu bitirenler oldu hep.<\/mark> \u00c7ok i\u015f yapar gibi g\u00f6z\u00fck\u00fcp, devaml\u0131 bir faaliyet i\u00e7inde oldu\u011fu g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fc verip hi\u00e7bir \u015fey \u00fcretmeyen insanlardan olmay\u0131n. Aman avare kasnak gibi bo\u015fa d\u00f6nmeyin. Bo\u015fa ko\u015fturmay\u0131n, sonu\u00e7 al\u0131c\u0131 i\u015fler yap\u0131n.<\/mark> \u00dczerinize \u00e7ok y\u00fck y\u00fckleyip de \u00e7ok y\u0131pranmay\u0131n, zorda kal\u0131p kay\u0131\u015f da att\u0131rmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 7- Dan\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/strong> \u00d6nce akl\u0131n\u0131za; sonra g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fcze; en sonunda da sizi hesaps\u0131z, kitaps\u0131z, menfaatsiz, g\u00f6n\u00fclden seven b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinize dan\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Sizden daha tecr\u00fcbesiz, d\u00fcnya g\u00f6rmemi\u015f, bir i\u015f bitirmemi\u015f, bir ba\u015far\u0131 g\u00f6stermemi\u015f insanlara dan\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. Ama mutlaka \u015funa da dikkat edin ki dan\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015finin soraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u015fle ilgili do\u011frudan bir menfaati olmas\u0131n. Size g\u00f6re de\u011fil, kendi \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131na g\u00f6re tavsiyede bulunmas\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 8- Zamanlama konusunda dikkatli olun.<\/strong> Planl\u0131-programl\u0131, zamanl\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak kadar iyi zamanlama yapmak da \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Bir i\u015fe erken ba\u015flamak, sabah erken kalkmak, yola erken \u00e7\u0131kmak mutlaka \u00f6nemlidir; ama \u00e7ok daha m\u00fchim olan\u0131, neticeye ula\u015fmakt\u0131r. Erken kalk\u0131p oyalanmak, erken ba\u015flay\u0131p e\u011flenmek, a\u011f\u0131rkanl\u0131 hareket etmek, sizi hep ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 9- Dikkatli olun. <\/strong>\u00d6ncelikle a\u011fz\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kan s\u00f6ze, lafa dikkat edin. Laf olsun diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden konu\u015fmay\u0131n. A\u011fz\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kan\u0131 kula\u011f\u0131n\u0131z duysun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 10- Haf\u0131zan\u0131za g\u00fcvenmeyin.<\/strong> Devaml\u0131 not al\u0131n; kay\u0131t tutun, ar\u015fiv yap\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 11- Randevulara vaktinde gidin.<\/strong> Verdi\u011finiz s\u00f6z\u00fc yerine getirin. Bizim milletin bahane \u00fcretme kabiliyeti s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131zd\u0131r. O yetene\u011finizi fazla zorlamay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 12- En b\u00fcy\u00fck fazilet \u201cBilmiyorum\u201d diyebilmektir.<\/strong> <\/strong>Bilgi sahibi olmadan yorum yapmay\u0131n. Yine bizim millete Allah, yorum yapma kabiliyeti vermi\u015ftir. H\u00e2lbuki en b\u00fcy\u00fck fazilet \u2018Bilmiyorum\u2019 diyebilmektir. \u00d6\u011frenme, bilmedi\u011fini bildi\u011fin anda ve yerde ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 13- \u0130leri g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u00fc olun. <\/strong>Yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z projenin, ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir i\u015fin birka\u00e7 hamle sonras\u0131n\u0131 da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn, hesaplay\u0131n. Alternatifli \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. \u0130\u015fin sonunu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden, yeterli analiz yapmadan ortaya at\u0131lmay\u0131n; yola \u00e7\u0131kmay\u0131n. Sonra yolda kalmasan\u0131z bile yaya kal\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z! Ger\u00e7i yine bizim millet \u201cKervan yolda d\u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcr\u201d demi\u015f; besmele \u00e7ekip yola koyulmu\u015f. Ama siz kervan\u0131 \u00f6nceden d\u00fcz\u00fcn. En \u00f6nemlisi, \u201c\u00c7ala \u00e7ala bir havaya d\u00f6necek\u201d demeyin. Ak\u0131nt\u0131ya k\u00fcrek \u00e7ekmeyin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 14- G\u00f6zlem ruhuna sahip olun. <\/strong>Bakan k\u00f6r olmay\u0131n, can kula\u011f\u0131yla dinleyin, can g\u00f6z\u00fcyle bak\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 15- \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm odakl\u0131 olun. <\/strong>Kafan\u0131z\u0131n yaz\u0131l\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u201cbir i\u015f nas\u0131l olmaz\u201d diye uyarlamay\u0131n; nas\u0131l olabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnecek, aray\u0131p bulabilecek bir kafa yap\u0131n\u0131z olsun. \u0130\u015fin olumsuz yanlar\u0131na tak\u0131l\u0131p kalmay\u0131n. \u0130ntikam h\u0131rs\u0131yla yanmay\u0131n. Hep ileriye, gelece\u011fe bak\u0131n. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u015feylerden de zevk al\u0131n. Ac\u0131 bir kahve, demli bir \u00e7ay, g\u00fczel bir pasta, bir par\u00e7a \u00e7ikolata, bir k\u00fclah dondurma sizi mutlu etmeye yetsin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 16- \u0130nsan k\u0131ymeti bilin. <\/strong>B\u00fcy\u00fcklerinizin bir g\u00fcn yan\u0131n\u0131zda olamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, sevdiklerinize uzak d\u00fc\u015febilece\u011finizi, onlardan ayr\u0131labilece\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek elinizdekilerin k\u0131ymetini bilin. Fakirlere, gariplere, muhta\u00e7lara el uzat\u0131n. Veren el, alan elden hay\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r. Ne verirsen elinle, o da gider seninle. \u0130yi ve k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcnde sevdiklerinizin yan\u0131nda olun. Gidemeseniz bile mutlaka telefonla aray\u0131n; mesajla, maille oyalanmay\u0131n. Allah\u2019a \u015f\u00fckr\u00fc, insanlara te\u015fekk\u00fcr\u00fc unutmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 17- G\u00fcnl\u00fck politikalar, k\u0131s\u0131r siyasal \u00e7eki\u015fmeler sizi esir almas\u0131n.<\/strong> Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yapamad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 konu\u015fmak yerine kiminle ne yapabilece\u011finizi ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 18- Ele\u015ftiri ve tenkide a\u00e7\u0131k olun. <\/strong>En \u00f6nemlisi de bir b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz sizi yetersiz g\u00f6rebilir, ele\u015ftirebilir; hatta zaman zaman size sinirlenip k\u0131zabilir. Ama bu sizi sevmedi\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelmez. Tam tersine o, sizi sevdi\u011fi, ilgilenmeye de\u011fer buldu\u011fu i\u00e7in tepki g\u00f6steriyordur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 19- \u015e\u00fckr\u00fc ihmal etmeyin.<\/strong> Allah\u2019a \u015f\u00fckredin, insanlara te\u015fekk\u00fcr edin. Kalbinizi temiz tutun. Ameller niyetlere g\u00f6redir. Akl\u0131n\u0131z, kalbiniz ve zevkiniz selim olsun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 20-\u00a0En son olarak da \u00f6\u011frenmeye ve \u00f6\u011fretmeye doymay\u0131n\u2026<\/strong>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n Aman ne olacaksan\u0131z olun sak\u0131n; \u201cs\u0131radan ve s\u00fcr\u00fcden\u201d olmay\u0131n!\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Prof. Dr. Ahmet Haluk Dursun<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Not: Bilge ve erdemli insan merhum Prof. Dr. Ahmet Haluk Dursun Hocam\u0131z\u0131n sosyal medyada gen\u00e7ler i\u00e7in yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 her birisi alt\u0131n k\u0131ymetinde olan \u00f6\u011f\u00fctleridir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Sevgili Gen\u00e7ler, g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn bebe\u011fi, gelece\u011fimiz gen\u00e7ler! Ne olur: 1-\u00a0Merakl\u0131 insan olun;\u00a0duyars\u0131z, ilgisiz, heyecans\u0131z insan olmay\u0131n. Merak etmeye kendinizi al\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131n. \u00d6\u011frenmenin ba\u015f\u0131 merak etmektir.\u00dczerinize vazife olmayan \u015feyleri de merak edin. Ba\u015fta, tabiat\u0131 merak edin. Mesela, barajlardaki su seviyesini, bu\u011fday rekoltesini, f\u0131nd\u0131k taban fiyatlar\u0131n\u0131, bu sene gelen turist say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, en \u00e7ok hangi filmin izlendi\u011fini, en fazla hangi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":412,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[39],"tags":[97],"class_list":["post-411","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim","tag-haluk-dursun"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/birtug.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/411","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/birtug.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/birtug.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/birtug.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/birtug.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=411"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/birtug.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/411\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":413,"href":"https:\/\/birtug.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/411\/revisions\/413"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/birtug.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/412"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/birtug.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=411"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/birtug.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=411"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/birtug.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=411"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\u00dczerinize vazife olmayan \u015feyleri de merak edin. Ba\u015fta, tabiat\u0131 merak edin. Mesela, barajlardaki su seviyesini, bu\u011fday rekoltesini, f\u0131nd\u0131k taban fiyatlar\u0131n\u0131, bu sene gelen turist say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, en \u00e7ok hangi filmin izlendi\u011fini, en fazla hangi kitab\u0131n satt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, hangi m\u00fczenin gezildi\u011fini, arkeolojik kaz\u0131larda neler bulundu\u011funu, nerenin nesinin me\u015fhur oldu\u011funu merak edin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n